I am curious how does one know the signs of possible transition is near? I ask this because as of late I've noticed my interests have changed more toward the femme and that I sometimes feel as though in male mode I'm CDing and I change to femme as soon as I can and stay that way for as long as I can. My mind focuses more on female items than ever before, I find myself in the womens departments thinking of fashion and style and how they would look on me and make me feel ,my male self could care less what I wear and how it looks. As a male I never could wear jewelry of any kind, now I feel naked without it and piercing my ears just made me feel so good now I can't go without some type of earrings. There are so many little things that have changed, too many to mention here. I don't know if hormones would be the answer but maybe just to make small changes so I could live as a female, yes it is a big move and life altering but I guess it's all in my mind since I don't dislike my body per say and this is not a passing phase or "pink fog" as I have been there and know of what I speak. It's just that lately I feel more natural in the clothes that are assigned to the way I feel as a person and help to express those feelings. Things have been happening so fast since I accepted the fact that I am gender fluid? just a short time ago. Being born a male I can't say how it feels to be female so TS is not who I am, just a bit worried?, confused?, apprehensive? I know seek professional help, but insight from those who know and have gone through a similar situation may help ease my mind for now while making a decision. It just seems I'm headed in a direction I find hard to comprehend. I'm a blind man afraid of the dark. Any replies are greatly appreciated. Thank-you.