Finding that balance point is hard work. Be open and honest with your S.O. and yourself and expect that teeter-totter to bang on the ground or toss you in the air from time to time, balance is that hard. Setting aside a time or a situation that works for you can be a good idea to help avoid the wild or poorly timed swings that Pink Fog tends to produce. The only thing missing is the photo to share with the forum so we can be fully envious of your time by the pool.