Male privilege (among other privileges) do happen from time to time, on the flip side, when you are at the bottom, it's actually much harder to get help if you are "privileged"
It does seem like this has become a debate over wether or not cd's should feel morally obligated to come out.
Isn't the whole struggle of the lbg and cdtg spectrums that people should be free to do what they want? If you want to come out for your sake, great! You don't? That's great too. You do you, and I'll do me and let's support each other regardless of the decision.
If the support is there we wil see more people comfortable with coming out, and they will be a better representation of the group as well. If you pressure people out, there will be much more stress involved, and the side that others see of us will be auch less happy presentation, which really hurts the its natural, and it makes me happy statement we want to make.
