Putting everything in letter form is a great idea, let her read the letter and sit right there with her.
Letters are personal and something she may refer back to on her own.
It shows you care about her and her feelings by taking the time to write it to her and only her.
Answer her questions honestly and if you don't know the answer tell her you don't know.
She may feel your opening up as a window into your very protective world and feel closer to you.
Good luck either way.
I cannot express enough how thankful I am for all of your kind words. My nerves are still shot, but it feels really good to let this out and hear your thoughts.Originally Posted by Tracii G
When I finally got around to having the talk with my girlfriend(who is now my wife), I tried to get up the nerve for weeks, but kept chickening out. Finally, I decided that the best way to avoid wimping out was to tell her that there was something important that we needed to talk about soon. I said that it wasn't going to happen right now, but possibly at the end of the evening, or in the next couple of days. I did this at the beginning of the date, followed by "I am NOT breaking up with you". Not only did it keep me from wimping out, it gave her time to prepare herself for the worst(not sure what that would have been), but she seemed quite relieved that it was merely that I liked to wear women's clothes. She should have had somewhat of an idea because I kept "stealing" her clothes, but until our talk, she never put 2+2 together.
Good luck with your "Talk"!!!
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