Having read through the posts I feel those that have lost ground over time have tried to push the boundaries too quickly.
I think many of you should read and learn why attitudes have changed and what specifically turns your SO off so to speak.
Others have taken it gradually and generally met with success.
Disaster can come at any time so remember all that bridge building can come tumbling down very quickly.
So read carefully and patience does help to mend those fences.
Good luck.
