Is your wife a more conservative dresser?

[IamWren]

Many cisgender women will feel this way because they have been exposed to decades of:
- body shaming
- unrealistic standards of beauty
- horrendous misogyny
- unwanted sexual advances, because a lot of men do not understand that dressing one way or another doesn't indicate sexual availability.
- women who dress less conservatively are often viewed as being less intelligent. There is a lot of femmeophobia in our culture.

Of course some women are just inherently conservative too. There is NOTHING wrong with that.

Also, your experience with femininity is probably very different from hers. Just something to consider.

These are the reasons my wife dresses the way she does. In fact she covers her small frame up from head to toe and if she were brown skinned and wore a hijab people would mistake her for deliberately being modestly dressed the way Muslim women do. Homestly it's fine by me. I know what's underneath and i find her quite sexy when she's dressed modestly the way she does.