I learned I liked crossdressing when I was a junior in High School.
Had a small test of my sexuality with a boy around that same time.
I did lead a normal life got married and had kids but the sexual aspect was just that a sex act, nothing too much more because my partner wanted it.
I was confused to some degree until I realized I was more interested in guys not girls.
Gender and sex are two different things and I know most people can't grasp that concept but I hope you can.