Have to say, if your avatar is fairly accurate, what on Earth do you expect? Lets face it, most men use the organ between the legs than the one between the ears when functioning socially.
What has happened, I suspect, is that you have come up against the real dilemma that every GG meets. I want to look attractive, but I do not want to be hit on sometimes.
It is hard to resolve, but please remember that males are stimulated - you should know, you are one - by visual appearance. You may well have to tone things down, just like many GGs have to. That is the price of looking stunning.
