Confirmed and happy bachelor here. I have a few female friends purely platonic, some know of my fluidity so I guess they all do, they all know of each other. I have found that over the years companionship is not that important anymore, sort of a loner I guess, just something I can't explain. I used up all my wild oats a long time ago I guess. There were times when my CDing was a deal breaker, their loss. I am learning to be more comfortable with crowds, in either gender mode I am expressing, it was and still is a hard row to hoe. I do enjoy the company of women much more now, but my male self also enjoys the comradeship of male co-workers in the work place, it seems I've lost some of my more male interests at home. I don't believe it is a hopeless and hapless situation, just a more difficult situation to find a supportive SO. As we age finding some who want to commit after all the years of freedom gets more difficult and of course we fight that prejudice that has set in to people of a more advanced age. Oh to be 30 yrs. younger and out as I am now with the more accepting attitudes of today.
