I've gone over basically to the Lolita style,which is very soft and feminine. I have swung away from the more conventional type clothing which is rather dull in comparison.
There are some variations here, however, so I can pick one which suites my mood. If I feel a bit tired or mre qiuet than usual I pick a skirt or dress with a more subdued pattern and color. Usually, however, I'm pretty upbeat when I'm out en femme so I go for a more outgoing look, with brighter patterns on the skirts, jumper skirts, and dresses, with lots of lace and frills. I definitely change my style to suit how I feel inside.
I really like your avatar, as it is rather unique.