I am considering something like "There is a side to me that you never will have to see if you don't want to, but I want you to know everything about me, I can not live in a relationship where we hide secrets from each other. I like womens clothes. I think they are beatutiful, comfortable and fun. So when I am home alone, I don't mind wearing a skirt, or a blouse. If you are so openminded that you still want to be with me, I will be very happy. If you even can consider letting me put om something occationally, even better. But I will let you decide how far i can go." In a way, I don't like being so defensive. It is a bit too much the person I was when I was together with my wife. I have to learn to stand up for my self, but this might not be the fight to take?
If the question arise, are you gay, easy to answer. I am not in any way. Do you want to change sex? "No I don't, not more than a woman wearing pants, or cuts her hair short." I understand that the last thing isn't something women would like to hear, but I beleive that men are trapped in a role where we have very little to choose between when it comes to expressing our selves. If it is ok to wear a kilt in Scotland, why is it not allowed to occationally put on a skirt here? In the year 2016?
I have told her I don't like wearomg a suit and tie. Even though comes the right time, like a more formal party, I can enjoy it, because it makes me feel very masculine, and if I notice that the woman likes it. I have told her I don't like having to choose between wearing grey, dark blue or black. That I like coulours.
And when.... well, I don't think i can wait much longer. I hate being dishonest. Especially towards someone I REALLY care about. But then again, have we come that far in our relationship (a bit more than two weeks) that we need to disclose everything about our selves? I don't know.
About The Danish Girl, as I understand, he/she acutally changed sex? I will never do that.
Any opinions about this?
