actually it is rather simple.
Gay ppl do not have a struggle with there identy in itself. it is simply with whom do they want to have sex. The physical same or the opposite or both (Bi, Homo or Hetero), the all taker ( which is pan) and the nontaker (Asexual). But They still Idendify themselfs as one gender. Therefore they are basicly like me, we cant possibly understand what is going on or the whys. so no it is actually not hypocritical. Because LGB asked for tolerance about having Sex with whom they want and Ultimatly to have a lasting relationship with whom they want. The T on the other hand is a little bit more difficult and so incredibly complex and asks for a different kind of Tolerance namely to be or to present as they want or feel internally.
So yes i can understand your frustration, but the fact is still lgb and T have different concerns, needs and unique problems.
