Quote Originally Posted by I Am Paula View Post
Mayo, I could not agree more. So much time is spent here, and elsewhere, trying to decide what is gay, what is not, does that change if you are presenting female....and on...and on?
Are the fair readers of this forum that worried about perception?
Here's my take on it-
Find someone to love, someone who you miss when they are gone, and celebrate when they return.
Find someone with whom a night in, cuddling and watching old movies is the best night ever.
Find someone who can make the mundane extraordinary.

Now, honestly, how important is their gender?
Agreed. THIS is what's important IMO.