I should imagine that most of us have or still are struggling with some form of acceptance of our CD side whether that be our own acceptance of our femme side, our partners, families or friends acceptance & of course society itself which is why this forum is such a great place to be yourself & connect with other people who share a common desire to explore a femme side - whatever part of that wide spectrum. I think the golden rule is that if you read a post that you don't like, just move on to another post & forget about it or, if you feel someone is having a go at you then contact the moderators. Otherwise, have fun & enjoy yourself.