I think he finally appreciated his adult kids in his final few years. He was an anti social loner. Now comes the harder part, dealing with my control freak intense older twin brothers, who truly have no respect for a work i say. Oh it never ends! Toxic family! I hope i can endure the hell still ahead over the will. Thanks Reine! I know a lot of you have been through losses, too. For 62 yrs, i lived, knowing my dad was alive. Now he and my mom are gone, and i have no wife or SO. Just my cats. The hell will come from my evil intense toxic control freak older twin brothers. The one in prison dictates to his twin here, and they have always been against me since birth, two against one. I have been in physical fights against the two of them, when younger, but they are the same yet. If i can find an aprtment as good as i got now, further away, i hope i can find a way to move for the 49th time!