Quote Originally Posted by flatlander_48 View Post
People cite retirement, death of parents and other circumstances that changed things for them.
... or divorce. I've always wondered about that - why transition only when major barriers are removed, when it is safe or easier, as if there was a choice all along. And if there was a choice (the choice to wait until seemingly unsurmountable obstacles were removed), then does this person have the same gender identity as someone who had no choice and risked everything.