Deebra ... I did ask if maybe this was your reason for continuously opening threads with this question. I didn't say it was your reason. You do seem to ask this a lot and so I also wondered why.Originally Posted by deebra
If you are instead merely concerned about not being judged negatively when you wear women's things in public, then I agree with Cheryl T who asked, what does it matter what others think. And my response to you is still the same:
Most GGs will not care, because you have no impact on their lives. You are not married to them, you are not their employee, their brother, their son, etc, you are not invited to family get-togethers in their homes. They may chit-chat with you when you are a customer in their store or if they're standing in line with you waiting to make a purchase, but that's as far as it will go. They'll have forgotten about you when they leave, other than perhaps a few of them telling their friends later they saw a crossdresser. I do agree with the members who suggested that some of these GGs might think you are gay. But, being gay is accepted in our more liberal pockets of society so this is not a bad thing. And there will be a few who will not condone your choices (like Alwayshave's fiancée), but it will be impossible to tell which of the GGs feel this way because most will keep their opinions to themselves in your presence. And there will also be a few who will admire what you do and think you brave for being out in public dressed. But most GGs? They really won't care either way, for the reason I stated: you have no impact on their lives. However ... should these same neutral GGs' husbands or boyfriends tell them they crossdress, they would react in the same way as the wives and girlfriends of our members. They'd initially wonder if their husbands are gay, or if they want to become women, and they'd object if their husbands wanted to dress full time and come out to everyone they know. And a few of them would want to be in a DADT arrangement.
Last, if you keep asking this question in order to add interest to the forum, then I go back to wondering why you so frequently ask the same question.
