Long distance relationships aren't real, Alice. Until u actually spend time with the person one on one.
I communicated with a Russian woman and another in Ukraine before I began dressing seriously 8 years ago. The Ukraine doctor was stunning, educated, and sophisticated. The Russian school teacher and I chatted on Skype for hours. Sometimes nitely. I thot we had become friends. Both wanted marriage to get out of their countries. I considered that with the doc but not with the Russian and told her so.
I had high hopes for the doc and she was amazing! She spoke better English than our interpreter and was hotter than her photos. And, she could charm the silver off your best dinner wear. I spent a week getting to know her. When I was with her everything was perfect. She was sweet, compliant, introspective, relaxed, very sexy, omg was she something! I was completely captivated. But, it turned out she was too perfect. When I spoke to her on the phone she was completely different. Bitchy, complaining, always hinting at sex if I bought her this or that. I left her without a second thot. She was either bi polar or on drugs.
The Russian woman met me in Turkey and we traveled around together for a week. We had so much fun and it seemed we were very compatible. So, I tried to see if we could be more than friends. It was the first time anyone laffed when I kissed them! So, friends we remain to this day.
My point is u r over thinking things just as I did. Meet the woman. Try to relax and enjoy the moment. I know that's difficult when your mind's working over time. But, the more time u spend with her, the easier it will be for u both be yourselves and determine your compatibility.
