Stephanie, To be completely honest, we are of the same unusual church beliefs, and we are , like 12 step programs to go to a higher power, and do our best to overcome many things. Just being honest. But, that does not make two people compatible. She is not condemning me, just hoping i can discard dressing, which she just does not understand. Like someone on here said, how can we expect people who know nothing about it, to understand, when we don;t really understand why we are pulled to do it? It is a mystery even to us who do it! She , like 99.999% of women do not want a crossdresser for their man. They want a strong masculine provider and protector. A crossdresser is a big turn off to the vast overwhelming majority of women, as Sometimes Miss often writes. She does not condemn me, just is turned off by any man wearing clothes designed for women. 99% do not like it.I heard a woman say that today, even!