For me and for I believe most of us, one of the reasons we do what do is to become someone else for a short time. I too am a professional who is responsible for patient care, my employees, my ex and child among other things..that is a lot of pressure to be always in control and making all these decisions that affect other people so when I go en femme I get to escape from these pressures, if only for an hr or two. That also translates into the bedroom where I become passive and prefer my partner be the aggressive one. So to me it seems quite normal to leave behind our male psyche and enjoy the pleasures and stress relief of dressing..
