One of many reasons I do not go to "clubs". Just adding alcohol to the male ego is just a bad thing all around(I know from what I speak). I have had a few flirtatious situations from men about my age, and shamefully, I flirted back but not to lead on and I know my gender was known, but I took it as a compliment on my presentation and overall demeanor. It really is a big scary and dangerous world we move about in.