Rules? What rules? There are no rules. Not any rules that gender dysphoria plays by, anyways. Therein, of course, lies the difficulty of it all, and the real reason why you have found yourself in your current dilemma. Because you, your wife, and your pastor are trying to play a game by rules that simply do not exist. And as you seem to be discovering, it doesn't work that way. As Arbon pointed out, this is not easy stuff. But this doesn't mean that it's bad stuff, either. What it would seem to mean for you, based upon the desperate tone of what you have written, is that you really have your work cut out for you somewhere further down the road, if not already.Originally Posted by Joan.Meredith
