You may be hidden but many of us are not.
If you aren't willing to get out and be seen who do you suppose should do it?
Why are some people always complaining but not willing to help the cause so to speak?
CD's dream of acceptance but won't put out the effort to make acceptance happen.
In a nutshell if you aren't doing something to change perceptions you are part of the problem.
I really hate to be so blunt about it but my gosh the whole concept is not that hard to understand.