First you need to think hard where you are going with this. This isn’t an easy question, and something only you can answer. I would suggest going all in. take a dive to a different town. Go to safe places like a big grocery store where you have to stand in line. Once you master your fears you will be able to go anywhere. Forget about that blending, perfect women stuff. Be the best Crossdressing TG person you can be. Be nice and courteous and I think you will be amazed how people respond. People mostly respond in kind. They have their own lives and just don’t care.