All I can do is warn you not to read too much into what is happening on that site.
You may think 1000 friend requests is cool but 50 may be actual nut cases so don't say I didn't warn you.
I am speaking from experience and having to deal with stalkers and nut case admirers.
When you have to get the law involved your secret is out there whether you like it or not.
You have to ask is their attention what you really want?