Of course it is a little selfish, but in every relationship there is a selfish time, out with friends, hobbies etc...I go to work about 10-12 hours a day, earn a good living, provide, take my wife out on dates, do allot of cleaning in the house and cook each night. I check in and act like a good husband...but of course I dress to. That is my thing. Why can't it just be accepted for what it is. If my wife needed man dress time, I would do what I could to support it, and make her feel good.Cause thats what people do in relationships...when they love each other...
