"The Talk" happened this morning

[GretchenJ]

Alls well that ends well now just make sure you don't go into that pink fog and start ramming your CDing down her throat at every turn and things may even turn out to be fine and non issue after awhile. You both may enjoy shopping together a lot more also.

Thanks Joanne,

She said that she would want to be engaged as much or not at all, depending on how I wanted. I love my life with her so much, I will continue to keep this part of me distinct and separate, I don't need to have my wife involved in this, in return I will not do anything to mistrust me and to be onboard and honest going forward

it all so uplifting, I am still crying about it.