Some very lucky people here:
Steffi, I think you are one very lucky person, your DADT seems to have provided you with quite a wide fence to play within. I think your very lucky to have a wife who is so unconcerned with knowing what you are up to.
Tama, even luckier to have found a SO who wants to be part of it all
Paige, interesting that you felt there was a Brick Closet (to twist your words a bit) between you before you were told. In my case I really believe and hope that my secret has not formed any barriers for our relationship.
