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Quote Originally Posted by gendermutt View Post
You would have to define lots lol. I know there are some. Mostly younger ones. It is not that it doesn't exist where I am living./QUOTE]

I think that the smaller the city, the more conformity is expected. I don't know this to be true, it just feels true.
Not always. For example, there's a small resort town in my area that's had a gay community for a long time. Crossdressers aren't uncommon there and are accepted. The exception might be tourists coming through that don't have a clue.