One question I did wonder about is why was the seat left up in the cubicle when I entered ?
Funny you should ask - I had that same question when I used the ladies room last time I was out. My guess is that it has to do with "hovering".
BTW, your cup may not have been so quiet, but it sounds like it was still quite nice.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.