Aunt Kelly,
I like what you have to say. One question though. Is it possible he thinks your presentation reflects poorly on the rest of us? After all, you are just another beautiful person blending into a crowd and he is trying to be a man in a dress. While he is standing out now, if there were more like him, and that presentation were more commonplace, he would blend better. Some current fashion trends have men in skirts (designed for them though).