This was more or less how my wife and I started out. I was not sexually driven but she was (to the max!). I got sexually driven when I was dressed so she made it her goal to get me to dress/keep me dressed as often as possible. This ended up being a similar "if I wasn't at work or with family I was dressed" situation. After a year of this it started to flow over into both areas. Nothing overtly feminine at work or with family, but pretty much cross-dressed 24/7 be it girls/womens slacks/jeans or shorts and androgynous tops/blouses with womens shoes of some kind (sandals, flats, tennis shoes, etc) and always in panties and at a minimum cami with pantyhose or garter/hose if wearing long pants (and no socks). There was never any attempt to humiliate so if I was presenting as a woman I looked like one top to bottom, and if not you had to be wearing the same thing (or have it in your closet) to tell I was wearing womans clothes.
This lasted till into the two year mark of our marriage when I started to transition but that starts a whole 'nuther story...
