Samantha many here have simaler stories, maybe not so much with wife. Myself I too wanted to dress when younger but
was always afraid to express that. When I got married I too began to wear the wife's clothes but she really was not happy
I've gone on a long road with my female expression and I know it's me and a part of me, with that said it has pitfalls I won't
go into but I do hope you find your happy place with this
