Minnie, I hope u realize even if u don't feel like a fox in the hen house, u r!
Personally? It took me YEARS of looking at the photos here and of meeting trans in person before I stopped cringing!
Now, I no longer see the "men in dresses" I used to see most dressers as. I see people I know and like! Much as u do maybe. Only without the "fox in a hen house" attitude!
Because I'm straight.