I love all of this. To borrow a phrase: "you be you!" Too many of us (especially me) are so self-conscious that we put far too much energy into what others are thinking of us rather than doing what makes us happy. Phili and Jennifer, you absolutely rock by living authentically.
I think you said so well on other comment is required.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.