My wife likes to say "You were a cheerleader in high school [not exactly true--I was on the drill team, but her point remains], and you still dress like a cheerleader." For me that mean white Keds, high ponytails (yes, sometimes with a bow), a cute and girly chin-length bob, and plenty of pink. Also pantyhose -- I was talking to a colleague the other day and she expressed amazement that I wear skirts and hose to work (the GGs in my office all wear jeans nearly every day), not because it's unacceptable but because "Why would anyone wear hose if they didn't have to?!" And I said "Women who have to wear panythose hate them. Crossdressers who get to wear pantyhose love them."