The are valid and cogent points, sometimes_miss. Some of us are full on hetero, some of us feel some degree of bisexuality at some place along the Kinsey 1-6 and presumably some of us are gay. I appreciate that some cross-dressers so not relate their activities to sex at all but to more complex feelings. However, when I see, touch and wear pretty lingerie I feel a definite zing. The serotonin, dopamine and whatever other endorphins/enkephalins might be involved, move to DEFCON 4 or even DEFCON 3. It's a wonderful feeling. Cross dressing is not a "lie back and think of England affair" (or lay back as the kids and some media say these days). Rather, it gets the hormones racing. It also makes me want to engage with other cross dressers, to share and laugh and to talk, talk, talk about it - some of that is presumably sexual and it culd be at various points along the scale.
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should be framed and put onto a prominent billboard, Isabella.
(useless fact: The British call Billboards 'hoardings', which always makes me think of Alaric and his mates, sacking Rome)
Kilroy: and there was much to sack
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(grins) very good
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makes me wonder if it's declining testosterone with rising estrogen either relatively or absolutely - your observation is spot on in my experience