I fully hear you and it sucks. I have posted many times about how accepting my wife is, but the other night she threw me for a loop. We were in bed and I had a bra and forms on under my night gown. Nothing unusual as I have done this many times. I wanted to cuddle, again not unusual but she daid no.That she does not want to when I am wearing "my boobs". That she is not with her man. This has really thrown me off. At breakfast I was sill wearing my bra and forms and nothing was said. Not sure whant to do.