My normal is living as and presenting as both of my gender's, I lean more towards women's clothing, but it's not overly femme in styling.
But the clothing itself isn't 'the' presentation:
I've thinned and shaped my eyebrows to the point they are feminine, nary a hair to be seen below that which resides on my head, a decent amount of make-up on most days, salon done fingers and toes (my hands and feet are my most feminine feature), 2 piercings per ear - usually with one set of danglies and one set of sparling posts, and a nice femme scent.
Summertime is especially nice, short ladies khaki's with a more noticeably female sandal and my fave warm weather item of jewellery - toe rings!
Cass