I've had a few lady-friends, all of which in the Air Force Reserves like myself, said they were tempted to "take me home".
But I know they wouldn't literally since they know my wife and all, lol.

A few lady-SA's have complimented on my heels and ability to walk in them.

Those are really the only reactions from girls that I've noticed.

Friends have told me that they saw women checking me out upon walking off stage and around the tables after doing stand-up.
And believe me, seeing me do en-fem stand-up, people know I'm a guy.

As far as a specific age of acceptance, I have no clue.