I seem to have friends here who are interested in my recent weight loss and any creossdressing adventures I try to put together. But this is something that I never expected. I pride myself in the fact that my two lives as male and female never intersect and like many in the male mode vs. girl mode thread my two personas do not look anything alike. That being said, all of the nurses and staff at my facility have responded very positively to my recent weight loss. However, the young pharmacist who works there made an interesting comment and made sure many around could overhear it. So he said, "Hey there Bobbie, let me know when you start your transition." Well that was a bit of a surprise. I am not stupid and I do know that with the weight loss I look more petite and lost a lot of muscle mass in my arms especially. Since I wear short sleeve scrubs my arms are exposed and thay are also smooth and hairless. I also wear woman's tapered white cotton slacks and sneaks. My scrub tops are also women's with the little expansion slits at the hips at the hem line that are meant to accomodate a lady's hips. But I have been dressing like this for years with hardly ever a comment. So what changed with the weight loss? Not to let him have the last word, my girl mind rose to the task and I answered, "I'll let you know but don't expect I'd ever date a jerk like you." All the nurses in ear shot cracked up laughing especially because this guy is famous for being inappropriate with them as well. I felt really good about their including me in their group when a few told me later that they were thrilled to see me put him in his place. But I got to think, how many really know? If they do, I love them even more for never letting it seem to be an issue and letting me live and work as the person and the nurse I love being.