I agree with you on your points above. I joined here around the same time and it took me about two years to figure out who I was and where I needed to go.
Members like Kaitlyn posted stuff that really helped me. Others not so much and caused me some confusion, but maybe I would have gone through that regardless. Or maybe I needed to, dunno.
So maybe stick around and be an honest, realistic. life for this section? We don’t need a cheerleader, but we also don’t need the previous vitriol. There needs to be a balance IMO.
Oh and congrats on living your truth!
