I’m confused and struggling with this whole conversation. I have adored woman since I was four years old. I have an enormous sex drive. No such thing as too much. “Wife” of nearly 30 years lost all interest in sex after menopause. Not only sex but affection as well. I am so lonely I could scream. I’m in a reasonably supportive relationship but in my heart of hearts I know she would rather the whole thing go away so I do everything possible to respect her feelings. The only time I dress is when she is out of the house. Result? No sex, no intimacy, precious little affection. Two hour time blocks now and then to be me. Am I screwed up or what?