1)Would be like Jaylyn My first step that lead to a better thing was tell my wife. It was great for a couple years then turned into a DADT type situation. I've just left it there and as the old song says " I don't like it but I guess things happen that way"
2)Going out the door for the first time,and having a walk around the streets, night time.
3) having a changeaway, meeting others cd and talking to staff in the shop.and purchase a wig that suited my face.
Carolyn