That’s funny!!! Can I use it?!?!
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SUPERB idea!
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Those points, especially the self-honesty, are important. It was a LONG time before I was not guilty/ashamed, so I couldn’t understand the issues myself. Certainly a risk for any partner interested in having a drama-free, foundationally strong relationship. I suspect that to be the norm, rather than the exception, unfortunately.
I mean can one imagine how hard it would be to find a hetero crossdresser that understands precisely where they are on the tg spectrum, is comfortable and honest about that, AND has no other mental or emotional issues?!? Oh, and is otherwise an upstanding citizen?
Say it with me now: Unicorn
I don’t think that cders are any more likely to have mental issues, so don’t make that assumption to my hypothesis. I’m just saying that it is probably hard for a woman to find a non-cder without some sort of issue - manageable or not - then adding cding to it just seems like a checklist for a very rare individual.
Speaking for myself, it all seems so clear now. Decided that a relationship is not worth the risk for me (on the “revealing part) and am happy having girl friends, not girlfriends, if you know what I mean.
Great points, Dutches.
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GREAT points, Katrina.
This post has hit the nail on the head. (Or at least it did for me, as I don’t comment much much, but especially this much on a single post.)
The OP points about finding out precisely the feelings of ggs is spot on. CDing is by its very nature a selfish (for lack of a better word - or thesaurus) activity.
Dutchess nails it to.
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Aarrgghh.
the forum somehow assumed that my 3 separate response should be combined together.
anyways, this is a great topic and hope other ggs chime in.
