Tracy,
She feels she has to lie to my wife about seeing me as Teresa , my wife is still trying to control the situation and gets very heated knowing people around her are not only seeing me but also accepting me .
Like most of the people that have seen me they realise I'm not what they expected , hence her comment about my makeup . I feel they think I look very acceptable and what real harm would it be to pass on that message . I'm sorry to bring up this point yet again but it's why I could never do MIAD , I'm not going to use the pass label but I tip the balance well on the way to being female , also as I found today my voice made little difference .
Bev,
Not the best place to look , they are an odd lot in Devon and even odder in Cornwall !!