Hi Olivia
I would like to be in the all or nothing camp — for me dressing is sort of like people who do historical re-enactment where the goal is to be as much like, say, a US Civil War soldier, so the uniform is important but so is hair style, accessories, the weapon, vocabulary and style of speaking, etc.
However - since I’m in the closet wrt family/etc I do what I can, to the degree I can, when I can and have to be satisfied with it.
Fran
