Today while out and about with my wife (I was dressed to blend) we stopped for lunch at a fast food chain, when we gave our order the cashier asked for a name - I gave my male name, (because my wife does not like me using a femme name -she does not want to be married to a woman) The cashier then says "How about your female name?" He was very polite about it (and perhaps gay - no offense) I did not want to offend my wife, so I looked at her and she says "Tommy". Not what I would like to have said but acceptable.
It appears that "Tommy" is OK, but Tina is not. Oh Well...