Sorry to here that Randi! But this is wierd!! Not you but I had on my mp3 player. Listening to Staind's "Cross to Bear" and singing along "I'm still here, patiently waiting for you to dissapear" and at the same instant I scrolled down to your post on my blackberry!! Freaked me out for a second!! LOL.
Well many or our wives don't approve or don't participate and we find ways to still dress and not upset the wives we love so much!! Good luck.
Love Karren