Ginny, you don't mention if you have (or have ever had) prostate cancer.

Prostate cancer needs testosterone to grow, and is sometimes treated via chemotherapy. Hormonal treatments applied in this way aim to stop the testicles from making testosterone and/or stop testosterone from reaching the cancer cells. A common side effect with such treatments is pronounced breast growth in male patients, and this requires careful monitoring (and adjustments to) the dosages or combinations of therapies used in this manner to minimize this occurrence.

Would any of this possibly apply to you, and perhaps explain why you are experiencing these unexpected feminization phenomena?